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Post by wantmoregirth on Dec 4, 2010 12:58:07 GMT -5
Hi I am just starting out on my path of research into options available and really whether this is a good idea. I have a completely average 6x5 penis.
My question is for those who have had successful girth surgeries. Has this been a game changer in your pre-existing sexual relationships? From the posts on this thread and MNS most people write something general such as the girls "really appreciate the new girth". To get to the nitty gritty, is the new girth significantly changing the sexual dynamic that existed? Is it changing her apparent libido level towards you? Does she want sex more, does she clearly orgasming more? Has it made you significantly more sexually attractive for her? Is the sex and the sexual chemistry a whole lot better? Or is it just a more of a ho-hum "oh that feels better thicker like that" response without making the sexual dynamic all that much different?
Obviously every woman is different and responds differently to a larger penis. To read the posters on large penis websites such as lpsg.org, a large penis is a magic weapon that makes for automatic amazing, pleasurable, and eye-popping sex for her.
I'm just curious on what the people who have had the surgeries or implants think it has done for them, before and after.
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Post by Skeptical One on Dec 4, 2010 17:43:29 GMT -5
You know, for a guy like me who is in dire need of girth, I'm certain the added size will significantly impact my sex-life.
My theory is that the larger size not only impacts what goes on in the bed, but influences YOUR confidence level. The aura of confidence is what I believe improves your overall sex appeal, more so than sheer dick size. Added size will usually mean a boost in confidence and/or ego.
I think it also depends on the woman, as you pointed out.
I should add that a 6x5 is a great size and I'd be the happiest man on earth if I could have that right now haha. Your girth is actually a bit above average...and in all honesty you are better off seeking to improve erection quality rather than pursuing surgical girth gain - but thats just my own humble opinion.
Surgery is a risky route, and I've always advocated it for those who are in "need" of it and not "want" of it. This is because risks are very real. Some have reported up to 3" in retraction because of complications. Those who are truly under-average can assume the risks to a higher degree than those who are average or above average, if that makes any sense?
That is just my opinion, and I in no way would criticize you negatively if you decided to go through with any procedure. At the end of the day - its whatever makes you happy - as long as you are certain what you are getting into is a decision that will ultimately make you happy.
Good luck with your research, we're all here exchanging what info we can.
(oh and depending on your girth goals, you could also look into manual PE exercises that work for some people).
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Post by justave on Dec 17, 2010 19:41:44 GMT -5
Hey Wantmoregirth - I'm with Skeptical One on this. I am a guy who has had surgery, I believed before and still believe that great sex comes from what is between the ears not the legs. 6x5 is a good size and 5 inches girth is above average.
In my case I was below average girth with average length and curvature. I understood the risks and with any of the procedure there is risk, it is surgery afterall, and loss of feeling is a big one.
Do I think women enjoy sex with a guy who has a larger dick? No! I think women enjoy sex with a guy who has a good imagination, inventive ya know!
So I didn't have the surgery because I thought it would give a woman more pleasure, I did it because I didn't feel good about it myself and I thought it was a barrier to confidence in bed. I do know however that the issue is how you feel about it, that was my case. Do good research and ask questions.....lots of questions! You've only got one!
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