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Post by bigwheels3535 on Apr 21, 2011 15:13:49 GMT -5
This might piss a few guys off but so be it. There are guys on here that have benefited and searched for results ie pics of penis' that show the good and the bad. Now they go and get a procedure done and do not want to share their results to others. I know its there prerogative but I dont get it?
One is completely anonymous on this site. Nobody would ever know?
Am I missing something here. Reasons not to post a pic?
To be honest when one says they have had a procedure but they do not have pics or state they aren't willing to post a pic it throws up a huge red flag for me and I want to call BULLSHIT!!
any thoughts?
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Post by Skeptical One on Apr 21, 2011 15:43:24 GMT -5
@bigwheels
I completely understand where you are coming from, and you are right - those who don't share pictures risk undermining their own credence. However, I don't think this is true for everyone.
I myself, someone who has greatly benefited from picture data, is still grappling with what I plan to do for my upcoming PMMA session. I think we have to keep in mind that for some, these are deep-seeded insecurities that aren't easy to share to the whole world, regardless of the anonymousness.
There are hundreds of guests, and even members who I'm certain have had the procedure but have contributed little to nothing to this forum. Am I upset at them? No, perhaps disappointed, but not upset. That's because I can relate. Sometimes this stuff is on a mental level, and while there may be no rhyme or reason, some of us tend to remain shy.
Hopefully as time goes on, more and more will be comfortable with sharing. As far as I know, the anonymous nature of this forum is quite sound. The ONLY person with access to IP addresses (which really can't be used to identify you unless you have a court ordered warrant) is myself, and I think I've demonstrated my legitimacy in safe guarding such info. I even have forum rules against posting real full names (unless they are doctors, nurses, receptionists, or brokers/shills) and face shot photos.
But all in all, I think its case by case. I will say this much. If you choose not to show photos but choose to share your experiences anyways, don't be surprised people don't believe you. That doesn't mean you are being called a liar, it just means that everyone's rightfully skeptical.
In my case, I'm not even sure how in the world I'm going to take photos. I will be with relatives the day before and the night after my procedure (and of course they don't know). I will have very limited forum time. I will eventually post pics but it will be days into my recovery.
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