This is sooo true.
All women are different.
Surely, girth is a good thing and a lot of women appreciate it.
More than anything else though, sex for women is between the ears.
No matter how big your dick is, a woman is never going to get off unless she is very attracted to you, and is sufficiently wet and aroused before you fuck her.
Above all else, women are attracted to confidence.
For some women, even when the attraction is there, it's trust that keeps them from being able to have an orgasm.
No question sex is a combination of physical, emotional, and mental factors.
I've seen my girlfriend have orgasms in her sleep, with hardly any stimulation at all. The mind is a powerful thing.
In terms of physical stimulation, the clitoris is 1000 times more sensitive than anything else.
When I have sex with my girlfriend, her orgasms or always clitoral. The feeling of having me inside of her is what arouses her and fuels her orgasm emotionally and mentally. The majority of our time having sex is spent with me all the way inside of her and moving just slightly in and out and side to side, with me pubic bone pressed against her moving up and down and in circles to stimulate it.
This is easiest and most enjoyable for the both of us when she is on top.
I am 5.3 x 4.75 and no more, and she has an orgasm almost every time we have sex.
Still, it could be better.
The last girlfriend I had, sex was insane. She would get on top of me and get off at least twice, and then I would stimulate her g-spot until with my hand until she had these full body orgasms the made almost every muscle in her contract and release. It was the best feeling sexually I've ever had.
This was because she was really strongly attracted to me and deeply in love with me.
What I've found is that deep physical attraction, trust, and a desire to be emotionally close to a man is what drives a woman sexually.
Incorporated in that for some women is a big dick, but confidence is much more important than that.
Mango you have PLENTY of dick to satisfy any woman. Straight up. Know exactly who you are, a build your sexually abilities to the best you can. Have as much confidence as you can, and even when you are not confident sexually, never show it.
After that, some women are going to want you, and some are not. You have to accept that.
If there is one you truly care about and cant get off, maintain your confidence as much as you possibly can. Build as much trust as you can. NEVER force expectations.
When you are with a woman sexually, try not to show her how conscious you are of how you are making her feel. If she sees this and feels like you are watching her, she will have trouble relaxing and opening up sexually. This is not to say you should not pay attention to her body. Just dont make her feel like she HAS to come.
There are a million books out there that offer different philosophies on seducing women.
I would highly suggest you take the focus off of your dick and into the upstairs department.
Easier said than done, I know.
Sorry for writing a novel. I am also sorry if many of you know all of this stuff already. Finally, sorry for typos. I am too lazy to go back and edit all of this.
All I know is that having a big dick is a good thing, but not everything. I know from many a woman that the best sex they have ever had was not from the biggest dick they have ever had.
I am on the lower side of average and I have had 3 beautiful girlfriends. The first one I had never had orgasms, and it was not until after that I found out it was a trust issue. The second was so deeply attracted to me and in love with me it was insane, and it made sex a blast. I was in total control and could get her off whenever I wanted to. My current girlfriend sex is ok, but I brought the expectations from my last girlfriend into this relationship, and anything short seems like its just not enough.
Sex could have been better if I had more confidence. If i had a bigger dick, I would have more confidence. It's a vicious cycle. I do believe in my heart and mind though, that without a doubt confidence is the sexiest shirt you can wear. You have got to find a way to be as confident as you can. A big dick helps, but you can do it without it.