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Post by eqstudent on Jun 23, 2011 15:45:10 GMT -5
I am going to start a wife/GF/Significant Other girth preference poll as a follow-up to the excellent discussion in the "how thick should one go" thread. I plan to steal the method hoddle posted about and ask SOs to choose from a selection of everyday items. I have a date night with my GF this evening and I will post her response in this thread. She has a book club meet at her place this weekend so I will try to get her to have her club do the p(typically 8 to 12 women). The items I will have her select from are pulled from my medicine cabinet and are as follows: Centrum Performance 120 Tablet bottle 7.75 Colase Stool Softner 250 Tablet Bottle 7.00 NEXUS Headress Leavin Conditioner 250 ml bottle 6.75 Benedryl Childrens dye free allergy liquid 4 fl oz bottle 6.00 B&L ReNu Multi 4fl oz bottle 5.75 UNISOM Sleep Aid 32 soft gel bottle 5.50 Ocean Saline Nasal Spray 5.00 SENOKOT 100 tablet bottle 4.75 D size Battery 4.50 Standard Pharmacy pill bottle 4.25 Genteal Liguid drops 1.5 ml bottle 3.25 Dry Erase Marker 2.50 I will not tell her the sizes I will just give her the items and have her chose her top 3 and then her winner. Please use similar size and distribution of objects. Please participate and post, age, height/weight, and number of children. This should be a fun project, I hope most members participate. Thanks! EDIT: added the link hoddle10 originally posted www.menshealth.com/sex-women/sex-survey-results/page/2Exit Polling Member age ht wt kids object girthjustabitmore cucumber 5” eqstudent 35 5’6” 140 1 Ocean Bottle 5”
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mrdeezy
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Post by mrdeezy on Jun 23, 2011 16:10:29 GMT -5
Asking women what they want has confused men once or twice in the past, so this might be difficult. I'm interested in hearing what she says though.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 23, 2011 16:57:32 GMT -5
mrdeezyI plan to give her the 12 items so she can handle them and then ask her to choose one. Not sure how that would lead to confusion or confused men? I still have 3 hours so I would be happy to implement any specific changes to the method that you think would make the outcome clearer or less confusing!
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Post by skatezy777 on Jun 23, 2011 17:42:27 GMT -5
Honestly, I agree that what people say and what people want are quite different. The most precise way would be to someone insert several dildos or other objects of varying circumferences actually into your girlfriend and get feedback in that direct mechanism. Unless your girlfriend has a really cool book club, that probably won't happen =) I don't know if your girlfriend would be weirded out by trying this on her, but that is my two cents.
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 23, 2011 17:46:11 GMT -5
Just be sure to remind her/them to disregard the lengths of the items they are holding because the overall volume is sure to skew their judgment lol
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 23, 2011 17:59:07 GMT -5
...The most precise way would be to someone insert several dildos or other objects of varying circumferences actually into your girlfriend and get feedback in that direct mechanism... I agree particularly if you define and quantify "feedback". Looking forward to you conducting that experiment with your SO and posting the results in this poll.
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Post by mustang2020 on Jun 23, 2011 19:36:04 GMT -5
I think may be the most accurate way for results of doing this test is to give them dildos or some kind of plastic round tubes of same length but different girths and then see what they say. A couple of drinks to loosen their tongues and their minds might be in order...
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Post by justabitmore on Jun 24, 2011 10:33:31 GMT -5
Good poll EQ I just voted! She said 5.6 six inches! But the object she chose was 5. when I said why not this one (Slice of thinck cucumber 6 inch girth) She said no thats too big!!! lol
EQ would be interesting to see what they think they like versus what they choose.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 24, 2011 13:45:38 GMT -5
justabitmore thanks for voting and stating detail. At this point we have 10 votes but only you and I have provided detail on the test. Hopefully the other 8 will post their detail!
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 24, 2011 13:47:35 GMT -5
We also have a lot of lurkers on this forum who don't have member accounts. That's too bad, more votes would be neat. The new forum will probably encourage more to sign up (it's free) since you will need a member's account to view pictures. A few more days till PhalloBoards Version 2.0! --- As for me, no current SO for S.O. but that doesn't upset me. I know what I'm capable of I'm just experiencing some "downtime" right now Wouldn't it be awesome if all the ladies suggested the 3-4" EG was ideal? We'd all feel like kings! Well some of us at least lol.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 24, 2011 13:50:25 GMT -5
The evening went much better than I anticipated but not the result I expected! My SO is a 36 year old divorced woman who has an elementary school age child. She is 5’6” and 130 lbs. to 140 lbs. You guys know how touchy women are about their weight. I’m not asking! She had a major accomplishment at work and was in a great mood. We celebrated by sharing 2 bottles of wine. She was very surprised at my little game but really got into it and decided to treat it like a beauty contest. Without further ado: Eliminated in the first round (would not consider under any circumstance)Centrum 7.75”, Colase 7.0” and Nexus 6.75”: “NFW, that’s like having a baby” Dry Erase Marker 2.50”: “definitely too small” Genteal 3.25” : “borderline, but you did say ideal, right” Eliminated in the second round (would consider but problematic)Benadryl 6.0” : “too concerned about pain to relax and enjoy” B&L Renu 5.75” : “borderline, but still a little too big” Eliminated in the third round (all workable but need to get to final 3)Pill Bottle 4.25” : “not ideal, better choices available” Senokot 4.75” : “not ideal, better choices available” Final 3 (Unisom 5.5”, D Battery 4.5”, and Ocean Saline 5.0”)At this point she “cheated” and did the mouth test! 3rd place: Unisom 5.5”, 2nd place: D Battery 4.5” Winner: Ocean Saline 5.0” Astute members will notice that my stat did not make the final 3 SO, Mustang2020 and skatezy777 were all correct in stating that similar lenght/types of objects would be better. My GF and I are plotting how to get such objects for her upcomming book club meet
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 24, 2011 14:21:06 GMT -5
We also have a lot of lurkers on this forum who don't have member accounts. That's too bad, more votes would be neat... A few more days till PhalloBoards Version 2.0! ... Not sure what software you will be using for 2.0. Hopefully you will have the ability to support public and private polls. Public polls are great so that all members can see who voted for what choice! Look on the bright side, you are no longer in the 3" to 4" segment and are likely closer to my SO's ideal than I am ;D
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 24, 2011 14:56:38 GMT -5
@eq
Did learning of your SO's ideal bother you? motivate you? or left you unchanged?
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 24, 2011 19:05:58 GMT -5
@s.O. I would be lying if I said that when my size was eliminated I was not crushed. The saving grace was : 1) She did not notice because she was busy examining the remaining objects 2) By that time we were both pretty buzzed and quite frankly the sight of her in bra and panties reclining on the bed, leg splayed open while placing cylindrical objects on her pubis to determine which one she preferred caused all the blood to rush to my unit leaving my brain unable to say anything stupid and insecure. I think I am just shallow. 3) Shortly thereafter she wanted to sample the real thing to validate her choice. ;D We have been dating on and off for a year and a half and honestly we both agreed this morning that that was one of our best nights ever. I also think with her it is not ultimate size that turns her on but the fact that it is rock hard. She is much more of a grinder than a pumper. That might also explain her instinctive attraction to the D Battery. I realize now that if I had gone all insecure I would have ruined a great moment and potentially created a rift that would have been all in my head. As it stands I got a text from saying that her neighbor and girl friend in the condo next door sent her a text that she needed to come over and replace the paintings we had knocked off her walls! My S.O. also wants to change her choice to the bigger owe (Unisom) because she concluded it is closer to my size after her sample session. I think she is lying, but so sweet! So my motivation remains EQ first, slightly more size if I am 100% sure it will not negatively impact EQ third. I know most guys on here are insecure about size, I can say I am deathly petrified about not getting it up and rock hard when up to the plate! An old GF once told me that most women she knew had 3 penis sizes; 1) too big, 2) too small, and 3) will work. The range of sizes in will work is pretty large and most men fits in that range.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 24, 2011 23:47:10 GMT -5
Well our poll so far says > 50% of our SOs ideal girth would put most adult films stars to shame. Of course those voters are all anonymous with no details on how those numbers came to be. Check out these adult films star sizes! www.sextoy.com/category.php?a=sextoycom&rid=30&cid=344
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