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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 16, 2011 1:13:52 GMT -5
I should note that most (not all) every guy here wouldn't mind having an 8x6, I think it would be unfounded to say women could agree...they probably think their 6.5" x 5.5" partner was 8x6 if he told her he was.
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Post by ratt2380 on Jun 16, 2011 4:23:17 GMT -5
Hey sizemic- Congratulations on your result! IMHO i'd go back only for minor "contouring" that you want evened out. Your proportions look both big and natural, so i'd avoid major further widening. If i go for PMMA, keeping the aesthetics as natural as possible would be important to me though, but i know there are also different goals out there. again, congratulations!
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Post by hoddle10 on Jun 16, 2011 5:03:35 GMT -5
@ratt2380
In my opinion it's highly unlikley you'll get the result you want in one sugery. I'm sure when Dr C finishes each procedure he's got the contour as smooth as he can, but he simply can't predict how the PMMA is going to settle. We've seen in numerous previous patients photos (i know you've only seen a couple) that during the recovery the contour changes significantly over the first few weeks and this seems to be far more to do with individual skin elasticity and not something Dr C's can control. Some guys have had over 20cc put in and only need minor touch ups, whilst others have had far less but been left with greater contour irregularities. I think anyone wanting a particuarly aesthetically pleasing result needs to be fully prepared for at least 2 procedures and 6 weeks of uncertainty and worry inbetween these procedures. I'm not having it done in the near future, but if I do get it done next year, then my aim is only a 0.7" gain and I want it to look as natural as possible. So I'm going to plan for 2 procedures and only ask for 10cc in each of them.
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Post by justabitmore on Jun 16, 2011 14:58:35 GMT -5
@so
Hi so yes you are right and that's why I said holy grail referring to unobtainable. I have had girls thinking I was 8 and I am only 7.25BPEL and I have reach the pelvic floor on many girls. So for sexual pleasure 6 or so is probably more useful and then with a decent girth its all good.
I wrote this (8X6) to size mic to really say hey man you have what most would consider perfect. Sure have a bit more but really don't start obsessing about 6.75 7 7.5. I wish him the best whatever he does and I realize I am the same. I got 5.5 (+.5 gain) from fft and now I want 6+ so I am no better If I start saying I want 7 shaft please shout at me lol
Its also our responsibilty to help each other put this into perspective. That was my point the holy grail thing was just an illustration!
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Post by ratt2380 on Jun 16, 2011 15:17:41 GMT -5
@hoddle 10 Thanks for the advice; this seems to be what I'm learning while going through the legendary 126-page PMMA thread I agree that if I do this, I would also go for probably less girth addition than what most people on here are seeking, as keeping things as natural looking as possible is a big issue for me (not trying to say it should be for everyone of course). I'm also planning on 2 visits, with the required 6 week space...and probably no sex in between either, just to be on the really really safe side
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Post by justabitmore on Jun 16, 2011 17:58:46 GMT -5
@ Hoddle
Not sure what your length is but be careful not to under do it as there may not be enough material to cover everything. My advice would not be too specific but rather let Doctor C guide you. He is all about making it and enhancement and much prefers a realistic goal. !asically if he thinks 14cc is conservative go with it! Also he might use a higher concentration at the base. They are great C and wade and you will be in good hands!
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Post by sizemic on Jun 16, 2011 20:38:46 GMT -5
Hey guys, I have decided 100% that I am going to ask for another full session for my round 2. At 5.5" mid-shaft girth a 0.75" gain would yield a 6.25" girth which would be perfect. Worst case senario is I get equal gains to my first session and I end up hovering around 6.5" MSEG. I think with the right amount of foreplay and lube, a girth like that would be great. I definitely do not want to exceed 6.5" but I know there is little chance that I will reach that size after my second session. Round 2 is in 20 days... I am definitely excited to see the end results... which will be perfect timing for my next year at University ... hehe
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Post by mustang2020 on Jun 16, 2011 20:47:54 GMT -5
Remember as you get older, you will date older women and they may have children so your size will be good for them. So at 6.5" girth plus or minus a bit, IMHO, is not an issue.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 16, 2011 21:19:09 GMT -5
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 16, 2011 22:30:07 GMT -5
Thanks for the links eqstudent, very insightful! And yes, PE forums are the last place to find comfort in our sizes. There is a great thread/term over at Thundersplace called "Wangarexia," ( www.thundersplace.org/forum/showthread.php?t=93925&highlight=anorexia - requires an account) which I think can be prevalent among us, especially given the fact that we're here. "Wangarexia," is a coined word meaning body dysmorphic disorder, specifically of the penis. I would say though, I notice it even more prevalent at Thundersplace than I do on this forum... they have guys there that are 8 x 6 and are there learning all they can about PE! That is why I always stress keeping size in perspective, even to myself (I tend to still want to go big)!
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 16, 2011 22:32:13 GMT -5
And I should note - I'm not accusing or suggesting any of our bigger members here of having dysmorphic issues, I'm simply saying that as a community we need to foster a more positive perspective on size...
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Post by mustang2020 on Jun 16, 2011 23:44:18 GMT -5
One of the best tests to find out if a girl likes a bigger dick is what happened to me and perhaps to others on this forum. I have been good in bed and I had an average penis size. I had this girl who I would see every few weeks and we would have great sex and she would come every time. This was before my implant. After the implant, months passed away since I was overseas on business. I then saw her again and when we had sex, she kept saying how big it was and asking what did I do to it, while we were having sex. I never told her and she did not ask any more. Here is the thing: she would come 2-3 times now and I did not even work as hard as before. She is a small girl with no children. My, notice I said "my", conclusion is that if you keep everything the same and increase the size of your penis, then you will have more fun so will your girl. I went from about 5" girth to 7-6.5-5.5" girth. All other girls had fun with it but for one girl where we just did not get the chemistry right.
I went to those links that were posted up there, Most women lie about size. Like I said, have a handsome man who is good in bed and now enlarge his penis and I am almost sure most of his ladies will never let him go.....
I am not promoting massive increases in size, but I think what we see here in this forum is not out of line!
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 17, 2011 3:36:35 GMT -5
mustang2020So you're saying that regardless of your length to procure women maximum satisfaction the best target girth is 7" at the base, 6 .5" at the shaft and 5.5" at the glans? HC
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Post by skatezy777 on Jun 17, 2011 3:42:56 GMT -5
@mustang
what is your length out of curiosity? your girth is absolutely MASSIVE
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 17, 2011 10:33:57 GMT -5
... I then saw her again and when we had sex, she kept saying how big it was and asking what did I do to it, while we were having sex. I never told her and she did not ask any more. Here is the thing: she would come 2-3 times now and I did not even work as hard as before... Did she say it was better because it was bigger or did she just pretend to come so you would get that thing out of her ...I went to those links that were posted up there, Most women lie about size... So women who are posting on women's message board are lying about size preferences to other women??? The reality is small number of women will like smaller, a small number will like larger, the vast majority will be very happy with average. Note that the women who posted that their guy was smaller in most cases said sex was great and was not trying to get rid of the guy!
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