Post by hunkchunk on Jun 25, 2011 4:33:47 GMT -5
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First I wasn't much for such a poll because I figured that it eliminates a lot of women for whom this is too intimate a matter to reply to statistically, ie the romantic ones who place size lower down in their order of turn ons. This possibly represents a larger portion of the feminine gent than we imagine, given the feminine amorous psychology which is maybe more mental than physical? Recently I had dinner with a couple, the guy was ageing, quite homely and ill dressed, his wife was of amazing beauty, yet she seemed really gone on the guy. So either he had a 9 incher or it was one of those mysterious attractions nobody can explain? I guess I should have asked (him). Not quite the sort of usual conversation among strangers in a society dinner: "That's one hot babe stuck on you, what's your length and girth?"
What I like about your individual survey of your own girlfriend is first her candor, and second that she relayed her own wisdom from talking with many women over the past twenty years: three sizes: too big, too small and no problem. This does show that most women she met up with and knew well enough to talk about intimate issues with concurred that penis size isn't important as long as it presents no problems. So we guys should awaken to the fact that if it does present a problem it is due to a number of other issues:
Social Status Symbol: the Phallo Dick Head, being a BIG DICK or one of the Big Boys
This can be present in different ways in different cultures. In the USA there is a considerable obsession with size, the taller guys get the girls, the bigger guys get to join the football team and become Big Man on Campus or All Stars, etc. In other cultures it might have more to do with sublimated power symbolism as in "Gee that's a Powerful MAN" spelled with a big M (ie a Big Dick) so I must be successful because "I've landed a born leader at the top of the the pride", "I've found the best human species genitor for my offspring", etc.
Vaginal Distortion: They were born, just like some guys with a smaller one, with an inordinately large vagina.
This is due to distended tissues associated wtih unusually weak vaginal muscles, making anything put up there swim in the emptiness. I only once met a girl with such a natural flaw which even though young and never pregnant prevented her from feeling a guy. There is the more common victim of such a plague, women who have had one or multiple natural child births with vaginal exits stretching or tearing their muscles beyond repair. They may find that men no longer satisfy them, not by any fault of the guy but because they can't feel anyone remotely "human sized". Some of these women, just like the Tsarina Catherine the Great of Russia, turned to mating with horses, the more proletarian version being with donkeys. Surgery exists for such an affliction, Dr Marc Abecassis is specialized in such operations, see his info in the Surgeons section of this forum.
Phallus Worship Psychological Fixation.
Women, just as men can have a Big Boob Fetish, sometimes have a Giant Phallus obsession. This isn't due to any social predisposition or physical requirement, as some may even endure terrible pain just to get the sense that they've gotten a hold of a mammoth organ, in which case the guy it is hung on simply becomes the accessory to the penis, which needs to be coaxed only enough to get it hard and in opration. Men will thus be little more than Dildos to them, gaining little more respect than a handy item to masturbate with. Sex with them will either be painfully disrespectful if one is in their mind undersize and thus unforgivably deficient, or subject to penis vereration if one has the physical size characteristics to generate their dick adulation, you being only the high priest to your own personal Phallus Divinity.
Regarding your girlfriends choices, I'm sure she did her best, and it is funny how she changed her opinion after monumental sex with you at your current girth while you're wanting to change it for both you and her. I think that this is because it was so incredible an experience that she did in fact realize that you're more than perfect as you are, to the point that she called into question her own prejudices. For example some of us liked girls with D-cups, but when you meet one with a B-cup who is the most divine incredible creature to walk the face of the earth and you can't believe the bliss making love with her, you wouldn't let her change even a tiny detail about her perfect self. How would you react to her wanting to get an implant to become and E-cup?!?
So I do notice that when a woman has "found her man" it is that she finds him more than sufficient, as for any woman sufficient can't be enough, she needs to admire him in some way. But beyond that she isn't thinking "I wish he were this or that", otherwise she really isn't in to them anyhow. What Penis size enhancement can do is keep one outside of the Problem Size Zone which can be different in various countries and civilizations, and it can also expand our potential relationships to women who have physical distortions of their own or psychological fixations about their womanhood imvolving their rapport to power and manhood. Let us not forget that the Problem Size issue goes for TOO LARGE just like it does for TOO SMALL and we must come to grips that women do often undergo Breast Reduction so it could be possible that some day, once the general cultural paradigm matures, certain overly endowed men may also resort to surgical Penis Reduction?
HC
First I wasn't much for such a poll because I figured that it eliminates a lot of women for whom this is too intimate a matter to reply to statistically, ie the romantic ones who place size lower down in their order of turn ons. This possibly represents a larger portion of the feminine gent than we imagine, given the feminine amorous psychology which is maybe more mental than physical? Recently I had dinner with a couple, the guy was ageing, quite homely and ill dressed, his wife was of amazing beauty, yet she seemed really gone on the guy. So either he had a 9 incher or it was one of those mysterious attractions nobody can explain? I guess I should have asked (him). Not quite the sort of usual conversation among strangers in a society dinner: "That's one hot babe stuck on you, what's your length and girth?"
What I like about your individual survey of your own girlfriend is first her candor, and second that she relayed her own wisdom from talking with many women over the past twenty years: three sizes: too big, too small and no problem. This does show that most women she met up with and knew well enough to talk about intimate issues with concurred that penis size isn't important as long as it presents no problems. So we guys should awaken to the fact that if it does present a problem it is due to a number of other issues:
Social Status Symbol: the Phallo Dick Head, being a BIG DICK or one of the Big Boys
This can be present in different ways in different cultures. In the USA there is a considerable obsession with size, the taller guys get the girls, the bigger guys get to join the football team and become Big Man on Campus or All Stars, etc. In other cultures it might have more to do with sublimated power symbolism as in "Gee that's a Powerful MAN" spelled with a big M (ie a Big Dick) so I must be successful because "I've landed a born leader at the top of the the pride", "I've found the best human species genitor for my offspring", etc.
Vaginal Distortion: They were born, just like some guys with a smaller one, with an inordinately large vagina.
This is due to distended tissues associated wtih unusually weak vaginal muscles, making anything put up there swim in the emptiness. I only once met a girl with such a natural flaw which even though young and never pregnant prevented her from feeling a guy. There is the more common victim of such a plague, women who have had one or multiple natural child births with vaginal exits stretching or tearing their muscles beyond repair. They may find that men no longer satisfy them, not by any fault of the guy but because they can't feel anyone remotely "human sized". Some of these women, just like the Tsarina Catherine the Great of Russia, turned to mating with horses, the more proletarian version being with donkeys. Surgery exists for such an affliction, Dr Marc Abecassis is specialized in such operations, see his info in the Surgeons section of this forum.
Phallus Worship Psychological Fixation.
Women, just as men can have a Big Boob Fetish, sometimes have a Giant Phallus obsession. This isn't due to any social predisposition or physical requirement, as some may even endure terrible pain just to get the sense that they've gotten a hold of a mammoth organ, in which case the guy it is hung on simply becomes the accessory to the penis, which needs to be coaxed only enough to get it hard and in opration. Men will thus be little more than Dildos to them, gaining little more respect than a handy item to masturbate with. Sex with them will either be painfully disrespectful if one is in their mind undersize and thus unforgivably deficient, or subject to penis vereration if one has the physical size characteristics to generate their dick adulation, you being only the high priest to your own personal Phallus Divinity.
Regarding your girlfriends choices, I'm sure she did her best, and it is funny how she changed her opinion after monumental sex with you at your current girth while you're wanting to change it for both you and her. I think that this is because it was so incredible an experience that she did in fact realize that you're more than perfect as you are, to the point that she called into question her own prejudices. For example some of us liked girls with D-cups, but when you meet one with a B-cup who is the most divine incredible creature to walk the face of the earth and you can't believe the bliss making love with her, you wouldn't let her change even a tiny detail about her perfect self. How would you react to her wanting to get an implant to become and E-cup?!?
So I do notice that when a woman has "found her man" it is that she finds him more than sufficient, as for any woman sufficient can't be enough, she needs to admire him in some way. But beyond that she isn't thinking "I wish he were this or that", otherwise she really isn't in to them anyhow. What Penis size enhancement can do is keep one outside of the Problem Size Zone which can be different in various countries and civilizations, and it can also expand our potential relationships to women who have physical distortions of their own or psychological fixations about their womanhood imvolving their rapport to power and manhood. Let us not forget that the Problem Size issue goes for TOO LARGE just like it does for TOO SMALL and we must come to grips that women do often undergo Breast Reduction so it could be possible that some day, once the general cultural paradigm matures, certain overly endowed men may also resort to surgical Penis Reduction?
HC