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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 15, 2011 9:51:37 GMT -5
hoddle10So ideal girth would be starting at 5.5" at the tip and tapering out to 6.5"/7" at the hilt? Isn't that what Sizemic got with PMMA? HC
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Post by hoddle10 on Jun 15, 2011 10:26:51 GMT -5
I don't think there is really such a thing as an ideal girth, as all women are different. I think for most guys, the best thing to do is aim for a size that will be big enough for the majority of women to enjoy, but not so big as to cause problems. My point is that what girl can "take" or "handle" usually isn't the same as what gives her the most pleasure. This forum is full of stories that confirm are illusion that bigger is better, but to sustain this belief we need to ignore the evidence that shows this isn't always the case. I think it's fair to say in the majority of cases 5.5" is better than 4.5", but there is no reason to think 6.5" is better than 5.5". I think there will be a higher perecentage of women who find 6.5" uncomfortable, than there are which find it pleasurable. I also think a far higher percentage of women will be more than happy with a 5.5" girth than find it insufficient.
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 15, 2011 11:09:25 GMT -5
Well that thread targeting women at Thundersplace only brought forward 2 women and both are somehow involved in a Penis Size forum which means they're sort of focused on size - right? As the exception, most ladies finding other aspects of a man more important, the both said their ideal large one was 7" by 5.5". For most guys with lengthening and thickening such is an attainable but should probably be considered the outer extreme, at least for contenting women with size preoccupations. There will be crazies with either physical anomalies (Dr Abecassis regularly operates oversized vaginas for reduction purposes) or psychological neuroses (some girls need to exorcise an early childhood experience with an adult penis). But most ladies will find us fine at our current size and might gain even more pleasure up to that largest one size fits all dimension. If I had the choice of any size and length I wouldn't want to get more than 7+ in length or more than 6+ in girth. My current target with lengthening is 6+ in length and with PMMA 5+ in girth. I won't be super-sized but won't get an instant rejection from size queens, unless they're the sort who enjoy doing such things to any guy. And if that ever happens I'll just hand her the good doctor's business card and tell her he can fix her for a fee.
HC
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Post by gsxr7501941 on Jun 15, 2011 11:40:54 GMT -5
Like I said....every time I have sex with my wife she has to be really warmed up and lubed up. Once I get her going though she has no issues taking it all in. Its the length more than anything for her that hurts. However, my big flaccid and erect girth are visual turn ons for her. I do want to go back, but as I have stated before the wife does not want me to go bigger. She is afraid it will hurt her too bad and that sex will not be fun anymore. I am size greedy, but also worried that sex with be impossible after another enhancement.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 15, 2011 13:06:25 GMT -5
.... My point is that what girl can "take" or "handle" usually isn't the same as what gives her the most pleasure. This forum is full of stories that confirm are illusion that bigger is better, but to sustain this belief we need to ignore the evidence that shows this isn't always the case... hoddle, thanks for bringing some sanity to this discussion. I have been lurking on this site for a month or so and while there is a lot of great info there is also a disturbing undercurrent of a lack of a realistic perspective on sexual issues.
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 15, 2011 13:17:35 GMT -5
...2) I have had sex with 3 different women now since my opperation and so far 2 have bled and 1 I could only fit 1/3 of my penis inside her (I should note their ages are 18, 19, and 23)... ...What do you guys think? How big should I go? I really don't want to do a half touch up session... but at the same time... I want to be able to have amazing quality sex. Sizemic, why are you asking the guys on this board, you already have real data from 3 women that says you may already be too large to have comfortable and enjoyable sex with some women. You have already gone from low average in girth to large. I suggest you wait 6 months to a year and collect more data . You can always add more later but you can't easily/sucessfully remove PMMA if you get too big!
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Post by regtam25 on Jun 15, 2011 13:28:01 GMT -5
im looking at alot of after pics and the girth looks lumpy. if i go from 5.5 base to 7 will my penis look rigged like the ones i see? or will it smooth out over time. also can they fill the area right behind the glands? im not sure if its already been asked
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 15, 2011 18:09:23 GMT -5
Here are some interesting posts from our members who have had PMMA: "There was one experience (with another) where she kept her hands by my waist, and pushed me back on several occasions during intercourse." EvilPnievel " I cannot get it all the way into my girlfriend at this point. I have to warm her up for a long time and use a lot of lube to even penetrate. once we are going she does good though and she expands to accept it, just cant get all the way in there yet." GSXR "sometimes its frustrating trying to warm some ladies up because the girth is really hard to fit in to females! I had this Asian girl I slept with and she always scream and pushes me of her which is a downfall for being so girthy and so far I slept with about 5 different females and only one can really take it." BigBizo Now whilst we know all of these guys are delighted with their results and GSX I assume can now enter his wife easily, this information isn't something that should simply be ignored. I've said before, for married guys or those in long term relationships, being really big is less of an issue, as given time your partner can adapt. But those who plan on sleeping around a bit, or like anal sex, should consider being more conservative. I'm sure most women like a thick girth, but there is a difference between being thick ie 5.5"-6" and being enormous ie 6"+. Well said.
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 15, 2011 18:12:47 GMT -5
im looking at alot of after pics and the girth looks lumpy. if i go from 5.5 base to 7 will my penis look rigged like the ones i see? or will it smooth out over time. also can they fill the area right behind the glands? im not sure if its already been asked What pictures are you referring to retgam? There are only 2 Blog sites up with photos, one of which looks really good. Other than that, the only place to obtain photos is via Dr.'s office, and he only sends out some of his best.
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 15, 2011 18:18:58 GMT -5
What pictures are you referring to retgam? There are only 2 Blog sites up with photos, one of which looks really good. Other than that, the only place to obtain photos is via Dr.'s office, and he only sends out some of his best. I'll second that question. I'm slated for PMMA soon and want to see as many examples as possible to input my girth and shape preferences before, and not after it is too late? HC
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Post by justabitmore on Jun 15, 2011 21:30:47 GMT -5
Sizemic you had great results and you have a great looking tool but I don't think one more treatment is a bad decision. I do think trying to aim for 7 and 7.5 is excessive if you want to keep a good look! Also there is a fine line between being a super stud and a circus freak lol.
Even with my 5.5-6.25 at base cock I have great feed back and sometimes use a bit of lube to help things along.
Do remember that if your first session got you .75 then expect less from your second session as you now have a much wider area to cover. But that would really give you something and then you can move on with your life and make a lot of girl happy and a lot og guys jealous. Your cock is long so yes 6.5 wouldn't look wrong but considering that 8x6 is the holy grail for a lot women so if you end up on 7.5 X 6.25 then you have hit the spot.
I had my 20cc today but apart from one cc at 30 percent the rest was 10 percent. I have a 7.25 BPEL cock and 5.5 girth (fft) I am going for average 6.25 girth. With 6.75 at base.
Whatever you choose good luck!
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Post by regtam25 on Jun 15, 2011 22:05:15 GMT -5
i saw both on blogspot and is it because theyre early and the shape will change? also right behind the glands, can that be filled?
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 15, 2011 22:35:39 GMT -5
regtam25You must be referring to sizemic's penis. I personally don't see the gap you refer to, at least not one that is unusual. Besides, he's still got a few weeks to go before assessing final aesthetics. My understanding is that the gaps can be filled. I have a small gap between the upper part of my shaft & the glans, which in my opinion is negligible but obviously that is subjective. I feel any artificial enlargement of the penis is subject to aesthetic irregularities. Fortunately with this method there are 2nd sessions designed so that you can touch-up any lingering contour issues. The same couldn't be said for the rest of the girth options out there (minus FFT).
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Post by eqstudent on Jun 16, 2011 0:17:15 GMT -5
... but considering that 8x6 is the holy grail for a lot women ... Where did you source this information? Could you provide a link or reference?
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Post by Skeptical One on Jun 16, 2011 1:12:26 GMT -5
eqstudent & justabitmore I disagree with the assertion that 8x6 is the holy grail for women... and most definitely will say that it is a number devised by MEN and MEN only. Women hardly can tell you the measurement of men they have been with and this has been demonstrated more times than not. Although conclusions cannot be verified as fact, I can say from years of scouring PE forums that anything beyond 7" NBPEL is unnecessary (for a woman's pleasure), and girths between 5-6" are more than satisfactory for optimal pleasure. 8" x 6" is ridiculously rare and needlessly huge.
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