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Post by mustang2020 on Jun 8, 2011 0:41:32 GMT -5
Gents: remember also that most men do not care about the shape of a woman's vagina too much. As long as it is clean and tight, I am almost certain most guys will go for it. Same for men's penises, if it looks half ass decent and is erect and is big enough, most healthy horny women will go for it Especially if it is BIG!
I think we, men, put too much emphases on the look of our penises. It is good to try to make them look the best they can, but once they are inside a nice tight vagina, most women will care less of it is curved any which way... This is my guess. I had an encounter when an Asian lady did not even see my dick with the implant, but she felt it in the semi dark room and she gassped and had a great time afterward, never did she inspect it or looked at it in the light later on. When I went to shower, she did see it but I can tell she was so happy she did not notice anything.
I do agree that we should strive for the best aesthetic look, but at the end, for me any way, I want my 7" girth tapering to 5.5". It has worked very well for me....
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Post by justabitmore on Jun 8, 2011 10:09:50 GMT -5
Hunk chunk, I am not sure if it was you who wrote in the chem forum about the use of dht. I posted a lenghty reply you might find it helpful! Re your target shape if you get it you should put on 'fly me too the moon' for your first date ;D just to confirm the shape you are after is in my opinion the most desirable and certainly what I am gong for. with fft I have 5.4 rising to 5.75 and then 6.25 at the base. Its big (ish) but at least you can ease it in better especially if faced with a small chick! @so I visited that thread and it seems that there was a consensus that he was too wacky or unusual to instill confidence in a volunteer to try out that procedure. It does have an appeal since it is similar in theory to the DHT cream I'm trying before PMMA. Do you think it would be useful after PMMA? I guess you'd have to schedule a touch up session with Dr C if it did work and shift things around... I'm especially interested in whether Dr Runel's procedure can enhance the gland. mustang2020There is a growing stigma about cosmetic surgery maybe due to a reaction against those very artificial standards which are thrust upon us by the media? It has gotten to the point that people now seek out the "natural look" in surgery such as rhinoplasty because it has become a source of ridicule when others say: "oh, look, they got one of those (insert expletive) nose jobs". I sort of want to avoid a similar stigma in the bedroom, or remarks such as "why on earth did you ever do such a thing to yourself?" HC
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 11, 2011 4:27:10 GMT -5
mustang2020I think you're right about women not always caring about a man's genital appearance. That is aside from women who are way into fellation, which means they have a closer intimate rapport with it as a lollypop. Therefore it might tend to become an iconic object, one which is venerated like an idol - meaning that it would need to have at least some plausibility as a statuesque representation of fertility just like the large penis-shaped fertility stones placed at most city crossroads in ancient Athens. In general I agree that women aren't as turned on my a man's physique itself, but rather by what that physique evokes in them psychologically. If, for example, they are already turned on by what you represent, you can be a diminutive hunchback and they'll gloss over that and only see you with their mind's eye as greater than life. This is clear whenever you represent for them some sort of a taboo, somebody whom they are not supposed to have intimate relations with thus motivating them to have intercourse. What matters then is being with you intimately as your lover, not what you may look like either in terms of your general appearance or what's inside your jockey shorts. It must be there not to represent your status but only to conclude the reality that they were able to "catch" you. Also, if they admire you for what you happen to represent symbolically, socially or for your actual deeds, your physique doesn't even enter the picture for a second unless everyone they know keeps telling them they're nuts. However, if you're not quite in such a situation where a beautiful woman venerates you for some legitimate or imaginary reason, that's where your confidence comes into play to help create such an impact on their psyche, helping them sublimate your physical presence and sexual equipment into what they already deeply desire. This means that you need to at least not contradict their innermost strivings by your general appearance, your garb, your demeanor or speech, discourse and manners - thus incarnating for their purposes what they might presume you to be. By the same token, being not so well endowed and especially being fragile about it - and guys, women can sense that - is a killer of such loving admiration meaning a death sentence indeed. Then there's the issue of the actual physical sensations as well as the unconscious idea of fecundity which is perhaps evoked by a larger than a smaller male genitalia. If they are either large or quite stretched by childbirth, women might find it hard to feel much without being hammered by a monster duck. So they'd be non plussed by a smaller gent not because he is in any way deficient but because she's abnormally out of shape, placing the burden of her satisfaction restrictions on the male's inadequacy. Finally we can at times detect that some women have issues with their father. This can be either from childish father veneration when they used to be Daddy's little princess, making them unconsciously strive to be loved again by him transposed to another man, often somewhat older or more psychologically mature. Then there's the more frequent corollary of women whose father failed to give them sufficient love and perhaps with a history of family violence. For these only a guy who mistreats them and keeps them in a constant state of stress or anxiety can placate their sense of being in love and stimulate their total devotion which can go as far as prostituting themselves to "keep" him. Finally there is the positive accommodation to that syndrome which is to bed with a man with a monster cock, one that is actually painful but with a hurt mixed with pleasure that lets them take their punishment without needing a guy who gives them black eyes or requires them to get their jaw wired. This way they've found their "real man" father replacement, who really loves them with his "Daddy Size" jackhammer. Let us all remember that much of these feminine requirements on our physique range from physical distortion of the woman's genitalia to the neurotic if not psychotic transposition of their own psychiatric issues to our own genitals. While having a larger dong may help gain you acceptance, admiration and love of a wider range of women, it won't help much in weeding out the mental cases from your bedroom and daily life... HC
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 11, 2011 4:37:53 GMT -5
Hunk chunk,
I am not sure if it was you who wrote in the chem forum about the use of dht. I posted a lenghty reply you might find it helpful! Thanks for your replies in that thread, I have made some noticeable chemical PE gains but I'm not yet sure if they are physical or mainly related to EQ... Re your target shape if you get it you should put on 'fly me too the moon' for your first date ;D
just to confirm the shape you are after is in my opinion the most desirable and certainly what I am gong for. with fft I have 5.4 rising to 5.75 and then 6.25 at the base. Its big (ish) but at least you can ease it in better especially if faced with a small chick! I'm pretty much set on that, but maybe in a more tapered shaft to glans transition. I guess we can retain justabitmore's name for it and officially call it a "The Shuttle". What is good about it will be that with a broad based tapered shape one can gently re-enlarge her at each re-entry or even with each full length swing motion, as long as she follows its contour. If instead she stays at its widest, then one has to return to perimeter play until she contracts up, once again pressing her open more or less forcefully for maximum effect. This can be done more smoothly and strategically with a gradually tapered member, making it less complex tactically and stylistically more natural. HC
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Post by hunkchunk on Jun 13, 2011 3:59:26 GMT -5
Regarding target shape, I have been recently thinking about adding flaccid shape objectives to my concerns about erect shape. The reason for this is deciding whether I don't also want to become more of a " shower" instead of remaining the quintessential " grower"? While I realize that having PMMA girth enhancement injections stimulates collagen which lessens the tendency to "turtle" and retains a slightly longer flaccid length, I am hesitant to miss out on the opportunity to have Dr Casavante's colleague Dr Camacho-Melo intervene at the same time as the PMMA injections by performing his ligament reanchoring for flaccid length gains. I would of course wear an extender during the entire 6 week or more recovery period even using weights or engaging in other "retraction countermeasures" so that healing a scar tissue won't retract my erect length, if this can be avoided with any measure of certainty. At 5.5" of bone pressed erect length I don't feel I have any length to spare and have read stories of those who lost one to two inches through scarring... What is better than elsewhere in other clinics which perform this procedure, is that the operation performed by Dr Camacho-Melo, is that it is done through a discrete scrotum incision which leaves no tell-tale scar. I know it has been clearly stated that it will probably not offer any noteworthy gains in erect length, but I imagine that it might enhance my confidence a lot, to magically become a shower instead of a grower. I read on Dr Reed's website (that's the reconstruction surgeon based in Florida) that it is generally quite rare to note a retraction in length after ligament surgery. " The technique essential to the operation will be transection of the fundiform ligament (superficial suspensory ligament of the penis) and deep suspensory ligament of the penis as necessary. Release of these ligaments will allow for corporal length (in the root of the penis to peel away from the pubic bone which will ultimately give additional length to the pendulous penile shaft. An incision made in the lower aspect of the pubis may be devised to cover the top side of the newly enlarged penile base. The ultimate additional length is a function of how much transferable "root" is in reserve and how close on a lateral view the pubic pad with covering skin can be drawn inward to the pubic bone"
"As a corollary to the above described technique the penis when erect in a standing patient following surgery may not be as elevated, as before. This is not expected to interfere with coitus, and is part of the "trade-off" which occurs when the suspensory ligament is severed. Also by virtue of peeling the erectile bodies off the pubis, the base of the shaft may take-off from the pubis somewhat lower than before although this is seldom noticeable to the patient. Some deviation to the left or right may occur, although few penises hang or protrude perfectly straight."
"The results of penile lengthening are "65%" attributable to the patient's use of traction for a minimum of 8 hours every 24 hours in divided sessions. I am able to devote this amount of time each day for this purpose. I have familiarized myself with various traction systems and know beforehand which one I will use. From surgery Dr. Reed has estimated but not guaranteed my length result will be about 3/8" and with dedicated traction usage, I may expect approximately a 1/8" gain every month. Individual variations in length gain is to be expected. "
www.penisdoctor.com/conaugphallorev.pdfHere is Dr Camacho-Melo's website where he doesn't get into details about penile surgery given possibly Mexico's somewhat more conservative moral standards when it comes to public relations and discretion regarding intimate matters. www.cammelplasticsurgery.com/html/about.html#dr-camacho-meloHe is also said to perform scrotal webbing surgery reducing the turkey neck syndrome of older patients or those whose scrotum skin advances along the penile shaft. I would envisage this at the same time as lengthening if I chose to take this path having well understood how to manage the potential risks of such a procedure. Thanks for your advice if you have an opinion, as I think that both respective to self-image as well as to enhance psychological confidence when undressed before a lady, being a shower might be an added benefit helping one be more natural and relaxed in intimate situations before one has gained full trust in a personal relationship. HC
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