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Post by new1inch on Apr 23, 2011 16:34:22 GMT -5
your definaely not whining. a lot of us guys on here been through the same things. its tough. and a lot a women dont understand you cant control the size we were given. if it was up to us everyone would be walking around with 9 inchers. I like to watch home made adult films. (NON STUDIO PRODUCTION) and sometimes it saddens me because you just see these everyday joes thats NOT in the adult films industry whipping out a 8 inch penis fucking the shit out of there girls.
Im not gay but sometimes when i see confident guys talking to girls i just think to myself " i bet this dude have a big ass dick, thats y he's so confident". and i think its worse for me becuase im black. i only managed to grow 5 inches erect. which i thought was small. now im 6 inches erect and i still think i wont be happy till i hit 7 or 8 because to me 6 is just average. and i like to date latinas (so damn sexy) and its hard because when the time come they are expecting for me t have this monster cock, and i have to disappoint them.
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Post by hoddle10 on Apr 23, 2011 16:39:17 GMT -5
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Post by hoddle10 on Apr 23, 2011 17:26:40 GMT -5
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Post by new1inch on Apr 23, 2011 18:34:56 GMT -5
does buried penis syyndrome have something to do with being fat? I ask because all the cases of theses men looked a bit chubby. well over weight.
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Post by modello1 on Apr 23, 2011 18:49:33 GMT -5
Looking for some help on trying to make a decision regarding PE surgery. I've consulted with Dr. Alter who seems to be a stand up guy and well respected surgeon. I've been emailing him for about 2 weeks now and he's been very fast with his responses. So here's my situation. I'm around 5.5 x 5 erect. I have extra skin at the base of my penis that covers some of the shaft(dog ears effect). I've spoken to Dr. Alter about removing the extra skin and cutting my frenulum and he said he can do this without a problem. With the removal of extra skin i would be at 6-6.25 erect. So hears the kicker. If i decide to go ahead with the surgery now i could never hang weights because Dr. Alter says it would tear out the sutures. Even if I waited years to start hanging he says it would probably still tear the sutures. So my question is should i try hanging first, then go for the lig cuts, hang some more to see if get any bigger with erect length or go straight for the skin removal and then go for PMMA to compensate.? Thanks Guys
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Post by hoddle10 on Apr 23, 2011 18:58:27 GMT -5
does buried penis syyndrome have something to do with being fat? I ask because all the cases of theses men looked a bit chubby. well over weight. Being fat makes it worse. But not all guys who have it are fat. I think IDM mentioned he had some kind of skin restrcitions that Dr Giunta dealt with during his surgery. I'm not at all fat and have a mild case of trapped penis. I'd say in theory about half the guys here could expose more of the penis with some skin redistribution, but the trouble is involves many incisions and thus scars. Often the scars themsleves becomes even more restrictive than the skin that was there before, so it's only worth doing in more extreme cases. A simple example of skin tacking to expose more of the penis can be seen in this video from about 2 mins to 3.30 mins. phalloplasty.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=articles&action=post&thread=294"e=5379&page=3In cases where shaft skin is too short from aggressive circumcsion flap techniques can be used such a Z-plasty or scrotal flaps.
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Post by hoddle10 on Apr 23, 2011 19:12:46 GMT -5
modello unless you are in a mad rush, then why not try hangining and/or extending first for a few months. If you gain nothing then just get the skin cut away. 6" is a good length. I used to really be worried about length but thesedays I just don't think it's that important. When I'm having sex I like to really grind against the girl and you can't do that in all positons if your penis is too long. In fact I wouldn't even want to be over 7". Aesthetically it's good to be long, but when it comes to actual sex, in my experince I really can't see many benefits. Everyone talks about their dream on an 8" or 9" penis, but I truely believe that average length is the best when combined with a thick girth (but not so thick that it makes girls uncomfortable.)
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Post by modello1 on Apr 23, 2011 19:20:46 GMT -5
Hoddle Thanks for your response. If i could hang and gain .5-1 inch i would be estatic because then i could have the skin taken out and be about 7inches which would be awsome.
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Post by hoddle10 on Apr 23, 2011 19:36:58 GMT -5
Modello, how much does Dr Alter charge for that surgery?
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Post by modello1 on Apr 23, 2011 20:26:45 GMT -5
He hasnt given me a price on it yet. He said his office would get back to me on prices.
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Post by sheldon on Apr 23, 2011 22:42:14 GMT -5
@ asmallcmaper,
You have a very moving story, but notice how 3 members, new1inch, hoddle, and myself quickly acknowledged you? That's how most members are here. This is a great forum where members give each other support and encouragement. Remember, PE is a journey. I'll give you more things to think about tomorrow. Don't despair, you are taking control of your situation already and have you read the entire PMMA/Dr. C thread? What about some of the members' thread with their experience with PMMA? Read new1inch's PE routine, watch the video link and picture links that hoddle posted. Ask questions here on the forum. As far as stretchers, look at autoextender, the Bib, and thegrip. Best to you.
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Post by kingpin on Apr 24, 2011 1:05:03 GMT -5
i had lengthening surgery with rosenthal and i gained erect length, so i know for a fact it is possible... takes some work but definitely possible. I had belladerm at the same time, i think f i would have got the lengthening done alone i could have made even more gains.
i should also mention i was really lazy when it came to hanging so im sure dedicated people see better gains..
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Post by mikehok on Apr 24, 2011 2:42:08 GMT -5
Hi asmallcamper
Thanks for sharing your story with us. Most people on this board are somewhere on the size insecurity curve and I think we can understand what you are going through in life even if our own situations haven't been as extreme as yours. I'll never forget an ex gf who had slept with about 15 men telling me basically I was one of the smallest ! And she was the most petite girl you could meet. And there was me thinking I was average, it really messed with my head.
I'd be lying if I said with a bit of effort and a few surgeries you could one day have a large penis, because I don't think that's gonna happen, unless there is a major breakthrough. But maybe it is possible to improve the situation to a degree. I don't know your flaccid length or your girth. But in the flaccid state a lot of guys seem to have short but fat cocks and they don't look that odd. So maybe pmma is a possibility ?
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Post by sheldon on Apr 24, 2011 18:11:24 GMT -5
Bravo, hoddle, you have done it again! Great link! @smallcamper - did you take a look at this video? Any thoughts on it?
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Post by sheldon on Apr 24, 2011 20:49:22 GMT -5
asmallcamper: I noticed you've been a member here since Nov. 2010, just about the time that I joined the site. You wrote a very moving post and rest assured you are in great company and many members share your concerns and can probably also share an ackward bedroom experience. I somewhat surprised how young you were when that happened. You must have something going for you, helpfulness, personality, something for this girl wanting to have you. Let me ask, and I don't want to get too personal, do you have any health issues? Have you ever gotten your testosterone level checked? Do you exercise at all? Are you getting enough nutrition? The main thing is you want to do something. You mentioned therapy and certainly that is good for some people, but as you acknowledged, will the therapist help you or just listen and collect your money without getting to the root cause? There are tremendous amount of resources here on the forum and did you note how quickly hoddle posted those great links and new1inch posted his response? New1inche freely shared his PE routine with the forum here. I am telling you, we have some great members here trying to help one another the best way they can. When I posted asking for hotel help and help with the PMMA guidelines/suggestions, did you note the helpful responses? Ask questions. Look at all your options, both non-surgical and surgical. Read as much information as you can on this site; also read Dr. Reed's blog/forum on his site, check out Giunta's site, and Dr. Alter's site. Perhaps start with a manual PE program, such as new1inch's routine. Look at both the autoextender and thegrip. If you call thegrip, and if they are not too busy, either Mr. Mathewuse and/or his son in-law Alan/Allen will explain how their system works. It's important that if you decide to use either thegrip or autoextender you use it correctly and for the right amount of time. This can be a problem depending where you live and how much privacy you have. You may have to use either one for a month or two before seeing results. It's almost analogous to bodybuilding. If you buy weights and a power rack and just use it a few times, that will not turn you into a pro-bodybuilder. If you decide to go with the surgical route, look at Alter, Reed, and Giunta. I would have mentioned Rosenthal, but what happened with yardstick and others, I am not sure of Rosenthal anymore. If you contact Alter, Reed, and Giunta, they may ask you to send photos of yourself in order to best assess your situation. It may cost you some money for a consult, but that is part of your journey. If you decide to get PE surgery, make sure you have the discipline to stretch post-operatively for the required amount of him. This is very very important. I think idm and kingpin wrote they could have gotten better length gains if they stretched more. I think the link that hoddle sent from Dr. Alter's site might be useful. Did you read the Dr. Fischer-Santos thread: phalloplasty.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=articles&action=display&thread=72this patient increased his size by 6.29 inches through dedicated physiotherapy and surgery. This is not some guy writing anonymously on some blog and making some outrageous claims, but something actually documented and verified. This patient's starting size was similar to yours. I hope this gives you hope and incentive. If that doesn't give you hope and incentive, what about Dan Salas? According to his site: " My overall results from these surgeries and training have been an increase in my length from 5 inches to 7 inches, and an increase in my girth from 5 inches to 8 1/2 inches." phallocare.com/about.htmlIf you do decide to get PE surgery, get lengthening first then girth enhancement. This is advocated by idm, kingpin, Dr. Reed, Mr. Matthewuse (of thegrip) and (I think) hoddle. Look at all options for girth enhancement, alloderm/belladerm, FFT, implant, PMMA and decide which on is best for you. As of right now, PMMA is the best, at least in the short run. Read the PMMA/Dr. C thread as well as the individual PMMA progressthread. Read about Fred here: picasaweb.google.com/fredconstantino/VideoNovembro2009#5405171674049671042let these inspire you. Of course you can wait and see Dr. Anthony Atala's research to turn into reality. But it's probably going to be at least 10-15 years before they grow vital organs - hearts, livers, kidneys, etc before any work is done on phalluses - that is probably another 20-25 years away, but that means waiting until you are middle-aged. singularityhub.com/2011/03/15/growing-human-organs-—-dr-anthony-atala-blows-the-minds-of-a-ted-audience/en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthony_AtalaHope this helps. Who knows, perhaps you will be in the record books as having the largest increase through surgery and physiotherapy...
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