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Post by stalemango on Jan 30, 2011 10:09:30 GMT -5
in that moment when you are having the argument and she makes fun of your dick, instead, she can just say "well you have a fake dick" or something along those lines. This is very true. To counter, you can: (1) opt for a package deal and get your lady breast implants or some other cosmetic enhancement at the same time; (2) only date women who have undergone surgery should you part ways; or (3) record some of the sex sessions and respond with, "Well, I don't recall you not enjoying it. How about we revisit the footage where I have you begging for it!" In all seriousness, you're real big on confidence, honested, and I agree with you in terms of it playing a major part in the manner in which your woman views you. However, if you're confident in many other areas of your life (e.g., looks, talents, humor, being a provider, etc.), I don't believe your lady is going to look at you otherwise if you bring up penis enhancement. As an example, if a student scores 90%+ on nine tests and scores significantly lower on one test, it doesn't make the student retarded. The key in having the talk is making her think that penis enhancement is something you're doing to take it to the next level for the both of you and not because you feel you're lacking. If confidence is still an issue for you, then make her pay for it. If she decides to play the face penis card in the future, you'll have ammo ready and waiting knowing you can say, "Well, I got you to pay for it and whenever you're tired of my 'fake penis', I'll be out happily using it on other women." Me and my girl where on a nudist beach and she saw this huge black guy and she she just couldnt stop staring at him, the next day he was having his usuall shower on the beach and she didnt even try and hide the fact she was looking at him and he knew it and started to get hard man he was big, but just seeing how much she got excited made me want to make her like that. Not doubting the veracity, iain01, but this reads like something straight off of a cuckold forum. I'm aware that people of all walks of life, shapes and sizes visit nudist beaches and resorts, but I'm sure males who know they have big units purposely go there, too, simply to draw a reaction. It's along the same lines of how naturally endowed males probably have more one night stands causing some women to believe average is bigger than it actually is.
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Post by marknmau on Jan 30, 2011 13:23:16 GMT -5
I'd like to expand on the general thread topic in depth but it will take more time than I have at the moment. But just to touch on the race-size difference: what I've read a few times from solid sources, and what I believe is: black guys DO have larger FLACCID penises, but the expansion factor is less than whites. Therefore, since guys usually see other guys when they are flaccid, the rumor has spread that they have bigger dicks in general. The studies I've seen show only a very slight erect difference, like honested has posted. like .1 or .2 inches only. I don't think you can even consider what is seen on adult films sites. My guess is that the real freaks who have huge ones..... black guys might be a bit more prone than whites to fall into that catagory. As far as other races like asian hispanic etc. I think they are close to the caucasion model. my 2 cents .....for what its worth.
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Post by honested on Jan 30, 2011 15:57:33 GMT -5
Mango,
Ineteresting theory on the one night stand. Probably has some validity.
iain01, Not a bad idea about bringing the conversation up in bed, particular when things are heated or after a good session. Tell her that you learned about a way to make your cock nice and fat and you are going to fill her up...
Might not be a bad idea to at least get the topic out in the open.
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Post by kingpin on Jan 30, 2011 18:12:19 GMT -5
just before reading this thread, i was watching some health show on TV discussing penis size. The show mentioned race and penis size and one doctor who had tried to find a correlation between race and penis size said something that made alot of sense to me.
He said based on his data and others he had researched between race and penis size. Most of the studies neglected a key factor. That was the size of the person in the study. Even when comparing asian guys who stereotypically are considered the smallest. The doctor made the point that comparing penis size of a 5 foot 4 asian guy to a 6'3 white or black male is not fair; because he found that in general people who are bigger in height, frame etc generally have bigger everything, hands, feet, head, legs and yes even penis.
If these penis studies were done with egual size people of every race the differences would be probably be nothing. Obviously there are exceptions to the rule but this was the general theory.
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Post by iain01 on Feb 1, 2011 5:46:59 GMT -5
Yea your right mango it does read back like a adult filmso lol, and yes you are right about well hung guys going on nudist beaches to show off, but it was the look on my girls face, I just knew she would be fantasising about him at some date. She comes no problem when I dont pump but the noises she makes when I do really do confirm girth makes a huge difference. I have had my fair share of ops and looks like now I am stuck with nowhere else to go, Im probably average now or just a tad larger but would love to be 6". I suggest maybe taking her to a hotel and trying to sneak in the pump and put it in a draw and let her find it,pretend someone has left it then wine and dine her and jokingly say shall we try it, Im sure once she feels the difference she wont mind you incorparting it into your foreplay
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Post by mustang2020 on Feb 2, 2011 0:42:21 GMT -5
In my opinion, enlarging your penis is a procedure done mostly for your own satisfaction. If your wife/GF/lady likes it, then it is a positive "by product" of the operation.
I was good in bed and I was average sized by American stats I found on google. I did the enhancement purely for me. Of course it turned out even better for Me and for the ladies in bed. I am not better in bed now but I do find it easier to get most girls off.
One of The best part about it recently came to the surface. Two girls were talking to each other and I could not hear what they were saying(one I had sex with a few days earlier) after a few minutes, the other girl turned over to me and told me quietly that it is nice to have a big dick.
I guess what I am saying is: do it for YOU, the rest will fall in its proper place
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Post by donjuannabe on Feb 2, 2011 12:53:01 GMT -5
Hi Mustang, I totally agree with you about doing this for yourself. It sounds like things are getting better for you and I am very glad. Do the ladies you have encountered find the enhancement noticeable? It sounds like they do not, or they just don't care, either way is a win. Have you considered posting a pic of your results? Personally, I think the pics I have seen of Mark and Mango look excellent. So much so that even now I am leaning more toward PMMA I still think maybe I should save for the Elist. And my heart does go out to all those who have had nightmare experiences with the implant, my thoughts are with those guys. Thanks for listening.
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Post by mustang2020 on Feb 3, 2011 22:31:25 GMT -5
Things are a bit better for me and the implant is so far stable with some minor pain during/after sex near the glans.
Only one woman out of a few noticed, but I try to avoid them touching me when flaccid. It really is not a big deal for me right now, if they do not like it....then F... them. Most have had a positive reaction.
I have made a promise to my self to post some pix AFTER my 2ND endeavor and recovery. I will post pix of normal, implant and what ever I choose next. I feel that it would then give a total picture of my journey. This will be in a few months from now when my work will allow me to do some thing else.
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